This book liberally explores the work of Dr. Roland C. Summit in 1983, regarding behaviors that abused children adapt to themselves just to survive the abuse. Dr. Summit published a paper entitled "Child Sexual Abuse Accommodation Syndrome" describing these behaviors. In 1997, while working for the NJ Court System, I happened to be sitting in on a trial at which a doctor from the NJ College of Medicine and Dentistry was describing the syndrome. As a child victim of sexual assault multiple times, my mouth hung open as I listened to this doctor describe ME. And what I have learned over the ensuing 20 years (I started this book in 1997) is that once I know WHY I do things that were generated by the abuse, I'm able to SEE the behavior, and to work to end it. Children "survive" life's crises much differently than adults. Once I learned about CSAAS, I truly wanted to share the information with every victim out there. It took a long time, it was not an easy book to write, but abuse victims need help -- they are all over the place, sadly -- so giving that help was my goal.

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6.1 oz., 100% cotton
Pre-shrunk, open-end yarn
Taped shoulder-to-shoulder, double-needle sleeve and bottom hem

Gray and White Trucker cap with American flag embroidery.
65% Polyester / 35% Cotton Front / 100% Polyester Back
Structured
Firm Front Panel
Low Fitting
6 Panel Cap
Seamed Front Panel with Buckram
2 Sewn Eyelets
Pre Curved Visor
6 Rows Stitching on Visor
Matching Fabric Undervisor
Black Sweatband
Plastic Snap Closure

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100% Cotton
Structured
Firm Front Panel
Flat to Flip visor pro style cap. This innovative cap can be worn with the visor flipped or flat.
6 Panel Cap
Seamed Front Panel with Full Buckram
6 Sewn Eyelets
8 Rows of Stitching on Visor
Gray Undervisor
Matching Color Sweatband
Plastic Snap Closure

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65% Polyester / 35% Cotton Front / 100% Polyester Back

Structured
Firm Front Panel
Low Fitting
6 Panel Cap
Seamed Front Panel with Buckram
2 Sewn Eyelets
Pre Curved Visor
6 Rows Stitching on Visor
Matching Fabric Undervisor
Black Sweatband
Plastic Snap Closure

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6.1 oz., 100% cotton (unless otherwise noted)
Pre-shrunk, open-end yarn
Taped shoulder-to-shoulder, double-needle sleeve and bottom hem